Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep


Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep

I am a thousand winds that blow, I am the diamond glint on snow

I am the sunlight on ripened grain, I am the gentle autumn rain

When you wake in the morning hush, I am the swift uplifting rush

Of quiet birds in circling flight; I am the soft starlight at night

Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there I did not die

I am the song that will never end, I am the love of family and friend

I am the child who has come to rest, in the arms of the father who knows him best.

When you see the sunset fair, I am the scented evening air

I am the joy of a task well done, I am the glow of the setting sun.

Do not stand at my grave and weep, I am not there, I do not sleep.

Do not stand at my grave and cry, I am not there, I did not die.

 

Reunited With You


Do not ever believe that I am dead and gone
I want you to know that in spirit I live on
Never weep when you gaze at that one empty chair
Don’t you know that quite often I come and sit there
I still know when you’re low, when you’ve had a bad day
For I’m only a whisper or a heartbeat away
I still walk where you walk, I still hold your hand
My footsteps aren’t there when you walk through the sand
But my voice can be heard in the sound of the sea
Or in a little child’s laughter when bounced on your knee
You will hear me when the cool breeze rushes through the flowers
Or in the tree tops that bend with the first evening showers
I will whisper to you in the still of night
If you could but see me you would know I’m alright
Search well with your eyes.  You will glimpse me one day
As I stand there and watch little children at play
I’m the light in the window.  I’m the snowflake that falls
A shadow lit by moonlight or the night bird that calls
My spirit lives on though my earth time is done
I’m still part of the earth, I am lit by the sun
Smile for me please.  I don’t want you to grieve
I’m well and I’m strong, I didn’t really leave
When your time comes to go the last thing you’ll see
Is my smile as I whisper “you’re coming to me”
For death is not final.  As you close your eyes
There’s a light that’s far brighter than blue summer skies
I will lead you towards it.  All loved ones are there
Happy and strong – free of all earthly care
I’ll be patiently waiting for you to pass through
For death simply means “reunited with you”

Science Without Humanity Is Dangerous


Man is ill; but he is resorting to remedies that cannot cure.  People admire the phenominal advance of science, but the advance has been from fear to greater fear, from destruction to more destruction.  In prehistoric times men killed each other using bows and arrows; now they kill entire populations with the help of atom bombs; this is praised as remarkable advance.

The scientist cannot stop the rise of greed and hate in the human heart; he can only forge the weapons they require and improve their lethal efficiency.  Man lives in daily dread of extinction as a result of the discoveries of science; for any moment the storm of hate may rain bombs on their homes.  Science has deprived man of self-confidence.  He is not sure of even himself.  He is afraid of himself for , at the slightest provacation, he is transformed into a wild and vicious beast.

Baba

You Yourself Are God


Remember that with every step you are nearing God, and God too, when you take one step towards him, he takes ten towards you. There is no stopping place in this pilgrimage, it is one continuous journey, through day and night, through valley and desert, through tears and smiles, through death and birth, through tomb and womb. When the road ends and the goal is gained, the pilgrim finds that he has travelled only from himself to himself, that the way was long and lonesome, but that the God whom he reached was all the while in him, around him, with him and beside him. He himself was always Divine. His yearning to merge in God was but the sea calling out to the ocean. Man loves because he is love! he is melody and harmony. He seeks joy, for he is joy. He thirsts for God for he is composed of God and he cannot exist without him.

Sathya Sai Speaks Vol 3 page 3

The Whole World Loves A Happy Ending


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Video Message Of The Week


Please go to the page entitled “video message of the week” to view my message for the coming week.  Thanks.

Sometimes We Have To Be Careful How & When We Help Those In Need #2


During my first visit to Puttaparthi I had enlisted the “help” of a taxi driver called Mohan, who had been recommended to me by my good friend Satyan, from Bath here in the UK.  But as things turned out it became apparent that Mohan was probably not as honest as the day is long and I suspected that he’d ripped me off on a number of occasions.  However, because I wanted our journey to be as smooth as possible, and I especially wanted Ciara and I to avoid the hassle I’d had on my previous visit, I decided that it was best to go along with the devil I knew.  So I contacted Mohan via email and we arranged that he would meet us at Bangalore Airport.  Many years ago the journey from the airport to Puttaparthi had been long and arduous.  But these days with the more modern road system it’s now only about a two and a half hour drive.

We’d decided that we were going to do something for those less fortunate than ourselves and it appeared to be a toss up between orphans and the hungry.   As we entered the outskirts of the village Mohan pointed to a building on our left and informed us that it was an orphanage.  Ciara and I looked at each other and knew straight away that we wanted to do something for the kids.  But I was a bit suspicious that we had not even reached our destination,  yet Mohan appeared to be bringing up the subject of money already.  Anyway to cut a long story short, we decided that we were going to buy rice for a village near Puttaparthi where, according to Mohan, there was a need, and we were also going to take some things to an orphanage.  The plan was that Mohan would organise the food with a local restaurateur he knew.  On the day he would pick up the food, then us; then we would drive to the village.  From there he would take us to the orphanage.  Ciara and I would pay for the food and all the stuff for the kids and Mohan, as his seva (service) would provide the transport.  Sorted.

I had brought with me some cheap supermarket biros from the UK to give out to the kids because they go mad for them in India; the humble biro that we all take for granted.  Ciara went into a shop in Puttaparthi and bought a load of books, pens and sweets; and try as she might, with all her Irish charm, wit and tenacity to haggle a discount from the shopkeeper, he would not budge.

The day arrived and Mohan picked us up with the food already loaded in the car.  He then asked for 200 rupees so that he could go and buy paper plates and cups.  I knew that the plates and cups cost nowhere near 200 rupees, but he did not offer me any change.  I was starting to get a bit frustrated with him, because even though 200 rupees was less than £3.00, in India paper plates and cups cost literally pennies and he was blatantly taking liberties.  He then said that we would go and buy a large container of drinking water.  So, he pulled up at a kiosk in a side street where he obviously knew the vendor.  There was a discrepancy here as well as he took twice as much from us as what the vendor appeared to say the actual cost was.  Again, it was a small amount of money, but the fact that he was seemingly blatantly ripping us off was becoming a source of increasing frustration for both of us.

There was more to come though.  We arrived at the village just a few killometres outside Puttaparthi and we were obviously expected.  But what greeted us was not a mass of starving people.  Indeed they all seemed rather healthy and not the least bit malnourished.  But first things first.  Before eating, the food had to be blessed and there was a priest on hand at the very tiny temple to do just that.  Mohan said we had to make a donation too “only notes” he said “no coins, 100 rupees”.  This again was ridiculous, even though 100 rupees was only about £1.15, nobody is expected to give that amount in these situations; I ended up putting 50 or 70 rupees in the temple.  Once the ritual blessing was over we dished out the food which seemed to go down well and all concerned seemed happy.  We did however have our concerns about the food and what Mohan had charged us for providing it.  It was only rice with a bit of sauce after all, and even with the cost of the container hire taken into consideration, it would not have come to any where near the 1000 rupees he took from us.

When the food was done and dusted there was another unexpected turn of events.  Ciara and I thought we were jumping in the car and heading back through Puttaparthi to the orphange we’d passed on the day of arrival.  Wrong!  Mohan informed us we were going to the village school.  We were not happy about this but he told us that some of the kids were orphans, so we went along for the ride to see what the situation was.  What followed next somehow made everything all right, but not before we had another disappointment.  It was only a very short drive from the temple to the village school, probably less than a quarter of a mile along what was more like a dusty track than a road.  We were very disappointed to see that along the way there were people who had not taken part in the feast, probably because they had been excluded.  We also saw a fairly elderly woman laying down outside one of the ramshackle houses who was obviously lame; these were the very people that we wanted to help but it was apparent that they had not been invited to eat.  Our opinion of Mohan dropped even further when just before returning to Puttaparthi, we were invited to take tea with him in one of the houses.  It turned out that the man of the house was one of Mohan’s relatives; giving clarity to the fact that he had simply used us to feed people who were not really in that great a need, in a village where he had connections, in order that his own standing in the community would be raised.

Thankfully our experience with the kids made everything seem worthwhile.  It was a very small school, just two classrooms that were very basic with plain stone floors, and none of the kids wore shoes.  They were just adorable and so excited to see us.  Seeing their huge beaming smiles and the looks in their eyes was absolutely priceless.  We were greeted with equal excitement in both classrooms, and as we gave out the books, pens and sweets it served to remind me of how different the cultures are.  The kids were absolutely over the moon in receiving these very, very basic books and pens and it emphasised to me how lucky we are in the West and how much we take the basics in life for granted. The excitement in their faces was quite something to behold.  Below are a few photos of the temple, the villagers and one of Ciara with some of the kids (if you click on them they should enlarge).  The conclusion to this story will follow shortly, in the meantime thanks for reading.

Fly


It’s only a problem having doubts when we don’t face and overcome them.  Your seeming lack of self-assuredness simply highlights the fact that you have gone into the matter free of ego.  Fly dear friend, fly…. and when you reach your destination create another one to aim for.

With Love

On Your Own Side


It’s impossible to make much progress if you’re busy clinging to the very things that hold you back. At some point you must decide whether you want to truly move forward or not.

When you constantly have to work against your own negative habits and thought patterns, success will continue to elude you. Real achievement begins the moment you make the firm commitment to put yourself on your own side.

You think thousands of thoughts and take hundreds of actions on a daily basis. Within those thoughts and actions there is enormous opportunity to make real, substantial progress.

How much of that abundance of opportunity are you utilizing to move your life forward? And how much is being wasted, or even worse, pushing you backwards?

When you replace a negative, destructive habit with a creative, productive one, you get a double gain. You are suddenly free from something that was holding you back, and on top of that there is a new force working to move you forward.

Use your thoughts, use your words, and use the actions you take each day to put yourself squarely on your own side. And you’ll be well on the way toward whatever you choose to achieve.

Ralph Marston

Healing Is


Healing is…

….releasing from the past. It is retraining my mind so as not to see the shadow of the past on anyone. It is learning not to make interpretations of people’s behaviour or motives. It is letting go the desire to want to change another person. It is letting go of expectations, assumptions, and the desire to control or manipulate another person…

Healing knows that forgiveness is the key to happiness and offers me everything that I want. Healing knows that the only reality in the universe is love, and that love is the most important healer known to the world.

To heal is to trust in a creative force that is loving and forgiving, and to know in our hearts that there is no separation and we are all joined in love with God and each other. It means that all hearts and minds are joined as one…

Healing is letting go of the fearful child so many of us carry inside, and awakening to the innocent child who has always been within us.

Healing is…

….peeling away the barriers of fear that keep us unaware of our true nature of love, peace, and rich interconnection with the web of life.  Healing is the rediscovery of who we have always been.

Gerald Jampolsky.